Disappointed with agency

Well it's seems I can't ever get clear answers out of our agency. But today while talking to another "waiting" mom, she said the agency told her there are 30 families waiting. They do 50 placments a year and 50% of those don't match our criteria. So We could be waiting 1 year or longer (probably longer since we already have a child).

The most disappointing thing is that if we were made of money we could work with other agencies and have our baby sooner. But financially we cannot go in debt anymore than our current $30,000 for Carson's adoption loan. UGH!!!!!!!